HE got Hong Kong singer Kelly Chen to cry on his show and singer-actress Gillian Chung to reveal her 'naive' love for Edison Chen.
He also got sultry actress Athena Chu to talk about why she left her superstar boyfriend.
In just under four years since he first rolled out Be My Guest, Hong Kong host Stephen Chan has had the hottest stars, plus businessmen - Jimmy Lai, founder and chairman of Next Media, which publishes Apple Daily and Next Magazine and Ronald Arculli chairman of the Hong Kong Exchange - spill it all on his Cantonese talkshow.
Even politicians like Hong Kong's chief executive Donald Tsang, chief secretary Henry Tang and veteran pro-democracy lawmaker Emily Lau have been his guests on the show.
The weekly episodes - which lasts about 50 minutes each - are usually filmed at a restaurant, where the guests enjoy good food and fine wine while they discuss the most intimate details of their lives.
Stephen was in town recently to attend the StarHub TVB Awards 2009, during which he picked up the award for My Best TVB Variety Show.
So what is it about him that makes his guests talk so much about their lives on his show?
The answer is simple: It is the art of listening that has worked the magic.
The 50-year-old told The New Paper: 'I try to focus on the art of listening, maybe that's why they (the guests) are willing to share with me. Everyone needs a listener.'
Patience is the key.
Said Stephen: 'I keep the questions short and I try not to interrupt even when they stop, because when they get emotional, they may stop. I just let the emotions run.'
Understand better
The host said his role as a public persona has also helped him better understand what his company of stars - some of the hottest in Asia - go through.
He said: 'I found that paparazzi had been following me. But it's also good because it helps me to understand how artistes feel.'
Listening is also the key to managing the stars at TVB, which he has helmed for 16 years.
He said: 'My door is always open for anyone who wants to walk in, to discuss whatever issues they may have, however big or small. Stars or not, everyone needs respect. As long as you're willing to communicate, to listen, they're happy even though you may not offer them any solution.'
But he brushes aside suggestions that the fact he's the general manager of TVB - Hong Kong main TV broadcaster - played a part in persuading the celebs, most of whom are not even TVB artistes, to open up.
Even though he had experience hosting radio programmes, he admitted he was initially worried that the concept of a chat show with him as the host might fail.
The showbiz icon said: 'I was worried because if I didn't do it right, there would be criticisms. Even if I did it right, there would still be criticisms.'
Fame was the least of his concerns then.
'All this started because we wanted to launch the channel's Pay Vision TV. I had my concerns initially because I've hosted radio programmes before but not TV.'
It took him one night to mull over the idea.
'Then I took on the challenge because I too was convinced that the show would be a talking point - good or bad.'
Love or loathe his probing skills, Be My Guest soon became a platform for celebrities to 'set records straight'.
So has anyone turned down his request for an interview?
Stephen laughed and said: 'Oh, many. Not everyone says yes.'
One example was Loretta Chu, a former Miss Hong Kong. She was previously married to Mr Timothy Fok, son of the late tycoon and philanthropist Henry Fok. They divorced in 2006 and she married Hong Kong real estate billionaire Vincent Lo at the Four Seasons Hotels in Singapore two years later.
Open book
Stephen said: 'She'd said yes, then she thought about it and she said, 'Stephen, I don't want my life to be an open book.'
'She asked if I could conduct the interview without mentioning her family, her sons or her new love life.'
After giving it some thought, Stephen told Loretta to 'just take it I've never invited you on my show'.
He said: 'If they don't feel comfortable, I don't want to press them. But if they're prepared to accept the interview, then be prepared to share with us freely.'
Like in the case of Gillian Chung.
He said: 'I asked her many times, even when she said she is ready. Just before we began filming, I asked her again if she was ready to share her experience. If not, let us not do it.'
She insisted she was ready.To Stephen, confidence is paramount.
'As a celebrity, people will write about you, talk about you - some bad, some good, or even make unfounded allegations. Whatever it is, you have to have this EQ and confidence in yourself. If you have confidence, you shine.'
Oh, and of course, passion.
'It's just like finding a partner - you can't just settle for someone. You have to find someone you really love, love so much that whatever he or she does, you still accept it.
'And only then can you find success and joy in showbiz.'
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Celeb confessions
Singer-actress Gillian Chung
A year after the sex photo scandal broke, she confessed how it was love at first sight when she met actor Edison Chen.
She said of their on-off romance: 'Usually, when I was with him, there was no one else because he had a profound influence on me... When I was with him, it was hard for me to commit to another relationship.'
She added that he would sweet-talk her, for example, over SMS. 'Even one message and I would be so happy.'
She said she agreed to have the sex photos taken as she did not want to lose him. She asked him why he wanted to take the photos and he said they were for his own viewing pleasure.
But she was worried even before the photos were taken, she added.
'I could not stop asking him, will you be careful about keeping them? How will you do it? He said, 'Relax, I am going to be in the photos too, so nobody is going to see them.' '
Actress Idy Chan
Better known as Xiao Longnu or Gu Gu in Return Of The Condor Heroes, she talked about her bittersweet relationship with Chow Yun Fat.
She admitted that she had thought he was the one for her and had contemplated marrying him.
On what attracted him to her, Idy said: 'Perhaps because he was tall, so when he stood beside me, I thought he could protect me. I've always had a soft spot about this.'
Actress Athena Chu
She had accepted the interview but said she would not speak of her superstar ex-boyfriend, although she had been linked to Stephen Chow.
While she did not name him, she said she broke up with the actor when they went on a work trip and she found him in a hotel room with someone else.
She had popped by his room to say 'hi' after work one day and discovered he had locked his door.
'Usually, he doesn't lock his door and others are welcome to visit,' she said.
'As a woman, my first instinct was to touch the bed. Why was it warm? Very warm! Then of course I went to the toilet, and the toilet door just couldn't be opened. There was no need to say anything.'
Singer Kelly Chen
It still remains one of his most difficult interviews as Kelly gave only one-word answers. But he did not give up and she became the first guest to cry on the show.
He had asked Kelly if she had anything she wanted to say to her manager, Ms Chung Chun.
Kelly broke down and said: 'I feel she is God's gift to me. Everything she does for me is out of her own heart, and not because she has something to gain. She's just like another mother to me.'
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